Take the Bull by the Horns and Never Give Up

Take the Bull by the horns and never give up. Hold on firmly to your dreams and aspirations and keep on preserving till you achieve them.

“Don’t listen to what anybody says except the people who encourage you. If it’s what you want to do and it’s within yourself, then keep going and try to do it for the rest of your life.”– Jake Gyllenhaal

Giving up when you are faced with obstacles is never the solution. Obstacles are often only temporary roadblocks along our journey. For the most part, they are nothing more than interpretations that we make about people, events, ourselves and circumstances.

Moreover, obstacles are there to teach us great lessons and help us to better understand our situation, others, ourselves, and the world around us.

The funny thing about life is that it always seems to present us with innumerable challenges and problems on a daily basis.

It throws left hooks when we were expecting right ones. It even presents us with seemingly awful surprises that we weren’t expecting. And it bloats us with unresourceful emotions that tend to tie us down to a life of mediocrity and unhappiness.

Despite all this, it is not so much what happens to us that actually makes a difference. It is rather what we do with what happens to us that determines where we will end up, what we will have, and how we will be transformed by our experiences.

Remember, what you focus on becomes your reality. If you are constantly searching for problems and focusing on the things that you do not want. Then that is all you will perceive within your reality.

However, on the other hand, if all you are searching for are answers, solutions, and opportunities. Then you will always be turning lemons into lemonade.

You must effectively teach yourself to search for the seeds of opportunity in every apparent problem that crosses your path. By undertaking this deductive process, you will create a powerful habit that will allow you to spot what others simply fail to notice.

Take the Bull by the Horns and Never Give Up. Confront your problem directly without “beating about the bush”. Focus on your desires, have faith and believe that with perseverance you can conquer your fear of failure.

I would encourage you to take the Bull by the Horns and Never Give Up. Learn to cultivate a mindset of determination that will help you to persist through the toughest of challenges along your journey towards the attainment of your goals and objectives.

As a final thought, I’d thought I leave you with a quote by Simon Sinek, he wrote: “Don’t quit. Never give up trying to build the world you can see, even if others can’t see it. Listen to your drum and your drum only. It’s the one that makes the sweetest sound.”


Ways to keep Yourself Happy and Motivated Daily

Don't be discouraged, Nothing is Impossible in life

Happiness is the only thing which depends on yourself. You can learn to keep yourself happy and motivated daily in life, by loving and accepting yourself, thinking realistically, engaging in positive activities, and working toward your personal goals.  

“Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present.” ~ Jim Rohn. 

It’s pretty easy if you really want to be happy and motivated. Know that nobody other than yourself, can help you to stay happy and motivated. Take control of yourself and your thoughts. And allow yourself to think about positive things only. 

Try to embrace change in your life. When you embrace something new and even enjoy the challenge, the real change happens to you. 

The real change that needs to take place is in your own attitude. Maintain a positive attitude about yourself by accepting yourself for who you currently are. Instead of focusing too much on trying to change yourself. 

“Be happy about your own life and you’ll be amazed at just how much more beautiful you’ll find it to be.” ~ TemitOpe Ibrahim. 

Practicing gratitude is a wonderful way to bring true happiness. Try to take a few moments every morning when you wake up to think of all of the things, you’re grateful for. It’s amazing how many wonderful things there are in your life once you really start to think about them. Know that your life is perfect the way it is and not lacking in anything.

Truly knowing who you are, where you want to be in the future, and what your purpose is, will keep you happy and motivated in your daily life. 

A good way to be happy is to believe. This is not about believing in God or any religious believe. It’s about believing in yourself. Believe that you can achieve whatever you want.

And even if you fail, just tell yourself that “The real fun isn’t in achieving what you want. But the fun is in travelling the path that you require for achieving the goal”.  

And if you fail after success, then the heaviness of being successful is replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again. 

So whatever bad is happening in your life, don’t fall, don’t be sad, don’t be depressed. Just tell yourself that it’s only for the good of you.

Always being positive is the key here, this will always keep you happy and Motivated in your daily life. 


The Point of No Return

The Point of No Return. The Bible teaches that God has a line and those who cross it do not come back. My desire today is to make you aware of that line and in the process, get you to think about your standing with God.

Sr. Helmut Theilicke once said: “We think differently on New Year’s Eve than at any other time, for then we see time as it really is — not as a clock with a round face where the hands come back to the same point again and again, but as a flowing river which passes a single point and never returns.”

There are things you can do on earth and reverse them. There are places you can go now, and you can come back later. There are people you are seeing now, you will still meet later.

A prisoner may still come back home after many years. The car you bought can be sold, the cloth you bought can be sold, you can pack out from the flat you rented and you can resign from the job you accepted.

But anyone that goes to hell after death, can’t come back again to correct his/her mistakes.

Romans 6:23 New International Version (NIV) says: For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Know that no amount of prayer can save you there in hell. No amount of pleading can help, your friends and family can’t help and calling the name of God to ask for forgiveness in hell will be a waste of time.


At this point, you can’t confess your sin and accept salvation. At this point your years of labour will be in vain; your educational achievement will be of no value, the titles like Bishop, president, professor, etc… will be of no value.

The Point of No Return. Having billions as a BANK account balance won’t help, your private jet, the expensive car won’t save you. The MARINE, CIA, FBI are powerless in this case to save you.


Repent and accept Jesus Christ now to have a chance to enjoy your life after death in heaven.


Empowering yourself and living life through faith

Empowering yourself and living life through faith

Empowering yourself and living life through faith. Having faith helps to build self-esteem, confidence and maintain a positive outlook on life. Ones you embrace, master and have a solid foundation by living life through faith, all things are possible.

You may ask what is empowerment? How to empower yourself is a question many ask. Learning how to empower yourself is a process. It requires you to take steps to build your self-esteem and become a stronger and more confident person. Additionally, it’s taking control of your life, setting boundaries and establishing your right to live a peaceful and healthy life.

It is important to put God first in your life if I wanted to start living life through faith. Faith is your biggest power tool. The more you trust that you’ll be taken care of, the more you’ll be able to relax in that knowledge. Knowing that God, or whatever higher being you believe in, will be with you all the time can seriously boost your ability to empower yourself. Faith helps you have the courage to do what scares you and to believe in your ability to get things done.

Empowering yourself and living life through faith is a process with patience and determination. It can take a while but you can start today to inch your way to becoming self-empowered and break any “People Pleasing Habits” you might have.

Take responsibility for your thoughts. It’s your choice to adopt criticism from others as your perception of who you are. Allowing criticism from others to rule your thoughts reflects in your behavior.

Eleanor Roosevelt’s once said: “Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission.” You can choose to brush off criticism and feel good about yourself. Someone may call you ignorant but you’re not unless you decide to agree. “I choose to think well of me.”

Self-esteem that’s based on external achievements doesn’t last! Take a personal inventory of your good qualities. Often what you hate blinds you to your great attributes. Become aware of yours by looking for them and writing them down just to impress yourself. Read it often and let them sink into your consciousness to help you value yourself more. 

Stop negative self-talk and override them with affirmations. Start to belive and have faith that Everything will work out for my good. Pay attention to any self-defeating thoughts you have. Try hard to be positive. It makes a big difference in your spirit.


Never Think You Are Worthless

Never Think You Are Worthless

Feelings of worthlessness can come at any time in our life’s. But Never Think You Are Worthless. If you are feeling like you aren’t worthy of the things you have in your life, you might be wondering what has happened to your self-confidence

You are not alone. Sometimes, you might feel hopeless or disappointed with everything. But you have to realize it’s just the way you look at things and people around us. 

When you start to appreciate things around you and smile to others, you will surely receive a smile back from them. My advice is, try to stay away from people who make you feel sad.

Don’t do things which hurt you. Whenever you feel low, just go out of your room, take a stroll in the park or better in the nature, watch your favorite show, talk to people, go to kitchen and start cooking something for yourself or the family.

And always think positive, just believe that, everything happens for a good reason. Instead of whining about one small thing, just move on and face the rest. You are not worthless, nobody is. When you make your family and friends around you smile, they are happy looking at you, you are not really worthless. 

If someone else has been telling you that you are not good, just ignore the person and move onThe more you dig into your thoughts about what others have said about you or to you, the less power they have over you and the more likely you are to be able to create new thoughts about yourself. 

Osho, an Inspirational and motivational speaker once said: “Nobody can say anything about you. Whatsoever people say is about themselves. But you become very shaky because you are still clinging to a false center. That false center depends on others, so you are always looking at what people are saying about you. And you are always following other people, you are always trying to satisfy them. You are always trying to be respectable; you are always trying to decorate your ego. This is suicidal. Rather than being disturbed by what others say, you should start looking inside yourself.” 

It’s important that you identify where the negative messages are coming from. If you are willing to figure out why you feel that way, you’ll be able to manage those thoughts and find your worth again. 

Take some time to consider why you are having these ill-gotten feelings about yourself. And explore where the thoughts are coming from. 

If you can just figure out why you are treating yourself so poorly. You can start to introduce more kind actions and thoughts into your day-to-day life. 

Start practicing gratitude for what you have in your life. No matter how little you have or how worthless you feel. Always remember there are lots of reasons to be happy about the way your life is right now. 

Be an example of what is possible in your own life and start comparing yourself to the person you were yesterday and strive to be better than that person tomorrow. 

When you notice that you aren’t having a great day, pay attention to what is going on in your head. 

It might just be that you need to replace a thought or try to do something else than what you are doing in order to change your confidence. 

This can take time to develop the skills to notice your thoughts, but with practice, you’ll be able to recognize that your lack of self-confidence is just a thought in your head. And you can start doing something about it. 

Feeling worthless is a common human experience. But learning to practice mindfulness to allow yourself to question your own thoughts and emotions, allows you to take a step back from the mind and understand that you don’t need to think negatively about ourselves. 

Taking an objective look at reality will allow you to see that you have a lot of potential and skills, a lot to be grateful for. And you don’t need to believe your own negative thoughts. 

Remember: Depression is nothing but our brain pushing us into a pool of negative thoughts. You need to take control of your brain not vice versa. 


Nothing is Ever Impossible: Just believe and have Confidence you Can

Nothing is Ever Impossible: Just believe and have Confidence you Can

Nothing is ever impossible: Just believe and have Confidence you Can. Building confidence, and becoming who you want to be, takes courage.

“If you believe in yourself, nothing is impossible. Without a dream, you cannot have an aim, and without an aim you cannot achieve and to dream you must have faith in yourself.”~ Koyel Mitra,

By believing in yourself, you start to build incredible confidence, which will further expand your vision and motivation.

If you look up the definition of self-confidence, you always get more or less the same description. Bernice Milburn Moore describes self-confidence as “a trust in self, and faith in one’s ability to be able to meet situations as they may arise.”

But more importantly, she says: “Self-confidence without competence is of as little use as is competence without self-confidence.”

Whatever you’re trying to accomplish, you have to believe in yourself, have confidence and give out your best. When you make progress toward your future self, you will build confidence. And with each step of confidence, you’ll believe more and more that you can become who you intend to be. Moreover, with each step forward, you’ll also experience an increase in motivation — which is the desire for what you want.

“Personal confidence comes from making progress toward goals that are far bigger than your present capabilities.” ~Dan Sullivan

By courageously telling yourself “Yes I Can,” you begin to make progress towards what you want to achieve in life.

The outcomes you’re striving for is your future self lies on your commitment to who you want to be.

Commitment to your future and your goals is essential to achieving those goals. If you don’t have a clear future self in mind, then you can’t choose and undergo a process to become that person.

Nothing is ever impossible: Just believe and have confidence you Can. And if you’re not making progress, then you need to adjust the process.